Karmic Relationships

The thought of their touch burns you up, the thought of their kiss makes your knees weak...and oh my, the thought of holding them in your arms is too good to be true. 

You are sure you've met before and not only that, you feel as though you may have been lovers at least once in a past life, maybe many times over. When your eyes met for the first time this life, you knew he or she was 'the one’. But wait, the lightning can strike even without seeing each other. 

In today’s age, karmic lovers are meeting on the web without even the benefit of a photograph first. Yet the lightning strike is so powerful, so consuming, so intense, you fall and you fall hard.

At first you are floating on air, sky high in your romantic bliss, everything is simply perfect. Then reality strikes. One or both of you are married. You live thousands of kilometers apart. There are children, or perhaps an illness, involved.

No matter what the complications, and there are bound to be plenty, you know that somehow you and your lover must be together. You feel it in your soul. It is a deep and painful longing, a longing no one else in the world can understand unless they, too, have met a karmic lover.

Does it read like a tragedy? Romeo and Juliet? Tristan and Isolde? Guinevere and Lancelot? These relationships are the blissful, yet complicated and painful type of relationships.

Sometimes you may break away from these kinds of relationships, but still the moment this person contacts you, you will drop everything and run straight to them!!!  You will even accept any excuses given by your partner! As long as they have wanted you for that moment! Even when you know its foolish. All of these and more are signs of a Karmic Relationship.

Age Gap & Relationship Speed - a strong Indication of a Karmic Tie A completely Non- Random Encounter, different socio-economic status , an Big age gap pg  5-15years and the speed of attraction, The suddenness of the relationship,  clearly indicates of a Karmic Relationship between partners.

Moving to another City- a strong Indication of a Karmic Tie
Moving. Post marriage, spouses may move to another city or even abroad. Faraway move anywhere away after the meeting and marriage, breaking family ties, beginning a new life somewhere far away from the place of birth - is another important sign of karmic connection. 

Punishment Karmic Relationships: Encountering some problems with health in partner after marriage - living with a man in a wheelchair, mentally ill or older (40 years) sudden the death of a partner is another indication of a Karmic Tie. Apparently, this "punishment" currently satisfied with the man himself, unconsciously picking troubled partner.

Strong Forces: Karmic meeting, you can be identified by the fact that the other person instantly seems unusually familiar to you. Quite often there is a mutual attraction, something attractive in the air ", forcing you to be together and know each other. If you have an opportunity, a strong attraction can turn into a love relationship. So often happens. 

What is its purpose in life?

We meet our Karmic Partner again in this lifetime to clear negative karma and to rekindle their love, however briefly the actual relationship may last. The purpose of the new meeting is to give each other the opportunity to resolve overdue. It does this by recreating the same situation for a certain period of time. Met again, karmic partners experience an urgent need to become closer to each other, and after awhile they begin to repeat their old emotional role. Now the scene is set so as to meet again with the old situation, and possibly deal with it the wiser way. The spiritual purpose of the meeting for the two karmic partners is to make a different choice than they did in past lives. 

Edited By: Mysha J

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How to handle karmic relations?

We meet our Karmic Partner again in this lifetime to clear negative karma and to rekindle their love, however briefly the actual relationship may last. The purpose of the new meeting is to give each other the opportunity to resolve overdue. It does this by recreating the same situation for a certain period of time. Met again, karmic partners experience an urgent need to become closer to each other, and after awhile they begin to repeat their old emotional role. 

Now the scene is set so as to meet again with the old situation, and possibly deal with it the wiser way. The spiritual purpose of the meeting for the two karmic partners is to make a different choice than they did in past lives. 

How to handle karmic relations?

Here are few points that may be of use in handling karmic relationships:

1. Stop judging others: understand that every person is born with his or her destiny. It would be even better if you try to understand the other person’s point of view on a subject that might raise conflict between you two.

2. Love unconditionally:  The wise advise not to allow selfishness to appear like love, understand that if you love someone and expect something in return then maybe you are allowing love to get diluted with selfishness.

3. Pray Pray Pray:  My only point is if prayers can help ICU patients then all those people with whom you have past karmic relations can also be helped through prayers. Use this tool liberally to avoid any possible conflict, and you will know the magic of prayers.

4. Do not do tit for tat: . If by no means you are able to handle a person, the best way is to separate yourself from the person without keeping any negative feelings in your mind. Someone needs to stop this cycle, so let it be you.

Stay Blessed

Edited By: Mysha J

Source Reference: Life fragrances.com, divine miracles . com

Can marriage be successful if horoscope don't match?

The biggest obstacle on the way to most Indian Marriages is - the Kundli Matching. Today marriages rely completely on Kundli match. People who have never taken the assistance of an astrologer throughout their life do go to them for Kundli match. With the help of Kundli match an astrologer is able to describe the partners about their compatibility and problems that can arise in their life later on.

What is Kundli?

The kundli is charted on the basis of the position of planets at the time of birth. Astrologers interpret the Kundli on the basis of placement and combination of planets therein. As the possibility of possessing a house, education, job, health etc. are assessed from different houses/planets of the horoscope; similarly the marital happiness one is destined to derive is also indicated in the birth chart itself. So if one is married to 'x' or 'y' the total possible happiness of married life should not change

Time has changed a lot

The Kundli matching did have some practical value in the era when it was not possible for the candidates to know each other before marriage. In the present era of dating and pre-marriage meetings, the prospective spouse has clearly better opportunities to understand the nature of each other.

Now the time has changed and the expectations of spouses are changed drastically. It is not at all advisable to use the outdated method of Ashta-kuta to assess compatibility of the prospective couples in the present era. Without understanding the essence of Mangal in the life of todays professionally qualified girls, the astrologers come out with Mangalik Dosha etc. In fact, Mangal is energy and intelligence.

In those days when the 'submissiveness' of wife was most desired quality, Mangal placed in certain houses of the girl's horoscope was considered bad. The method was drafted to ascertain the dominance of Male in the relationship.

But now, the girls are doing exceptionally well on all fronts; be it education or occupation. For such girls it is natural that she should have a prominent Mangal in her chart. Without the help of Mangal, she cannot be able attain all the achievements. For such girls, it would be natural to have slightly high sense of self-esteem. The expectations of today's husbands are also different than the traditional.

They have learned the art of accommodating earning wife's domination. The males know that she is not just a housewife, now. She is his partner. However, unfortunately the astrologers are still going ahead with their century old methods.

In today's society, it would be better if a would be couple go in for medical check up to see that there is no danger of unfavorable the RH factor, AIDS etc. rather than going in for Kundli Matching.

Also,It would not be wise to go in for Kundli Matching when you are involved in a relationship for a considerable time. If something negative comes out during such matching; it would create a doubt for the whole life. I personally believe that the 'Kundli Matching' is a futile exercise.

Yes, I am astrologer and even though, I believe this strongly. This is because, I have understood the concept of Kundli Matching astrology and I don't entertain astrology at the cost of my commonsense.

I strongly feel that rejecting an otherwise very good boy or a girl because of low score on astrological compatibility is just too much. The saying 'Known devil is better than an unknown angel' has a lot to say here.

Edited By: Mysha

Source Reference: VibhutiGanesh